Wedding is complicated, it's not as simple as I thought it would be. At first, I just want to have a simple wedding, like holy matrimony in the morning, then Chinese tea ceremony in the afternoon and finally the wedding dinner reception at night. Yeah, the big picture still will going on like that, but there are so many things that we need to do in between which make it not simple anymore
(^▽^) Most of it are related to the tradition which I never imagined before, so I was shocked when my mom told me about it, hahaha XD Chinese really do have a lot of tradition. Not only on the wedding day, but there are also a lot of rituals that we need to do both before and after the wedding. And also, Chinese believe in taboo, we can't do this, we can't do that, there are many things which are not allowed. On the contrary, we have hundreds of rules to follow
(^_^;) Our parents are very into this tradition thingy, so there is no way we could skip any of it
~_~ Well, they believe it's for our own good, that's why we need to follow every rule and avoid every taboo. I really appreciate their good intentions <3
Every day is getting nearer and nearer to the D-day. As it's getting nearer, there are also a lot of things which suddenly popped up into our face. For every bride to be, I suggest you to lower your expectation because not everything will go as how you wish for. Hey, not every decision is yours. Sometimes it's your parent's, boyfriend parent's, the family's or even the God's.
"God knows what is best for us"
That's what I told myself when something didn't turn out the way I wanted it to be, a consolation for myself :) We've been preparing the wedding for a year, more or less. There are a lot of ups and downs in the process. But I do enjoy all of it as this is a once in a lifetime experience! =D
"Yes, I do, my prince charming~" <3